As both sides of the
political landscape frantically scramble to lay claim to the introduction of
marriage equality to our country I have found myself struggling to see who, in
modern Australia, could be opposed to gay marriage.
In my circle of acquaintances, colleagues and
friends I would be hard pressed to find a single individual who would for a
second think it appropriate to deny marriage to same sex couples, and most
believe that the current denial is a gross overstep from the Government and
moreover a blight on our national conscience. This is in spite of the fact that
I can think of a few of them who could be characterised as homophobic or at the
very least not very homo-sensitive. So where does this opposition come from? Who
are these “brave” stalwarts in the fight against marriage equality, the ones
with their fingers in the dam?
Initially I thought
that the older generations, retirement age and onwards, would be the staunchest
opposition. They have endured the most change, the shifting of the sands, from
the days when you could expect to hear the casually-thrown-around homophobic
slur emanating from the T.V. to the first Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras in Sydney
in 1978, on to the blinding, sequined, national success of Priscilla and right
up to today. Perhaps they are the ones gripping the past, holding onto the old
ways and the traditional idea of marriage…No, I don’t think so. Whilst it’s
true that “political correctness” was borderline non-existent forty years ago
Australian culture was also dramatically different. As the culture has changed
and evolved, as our people has become more diverse, it’s the older generation
that has led the way, albeit oftentimes kicking and screaming, in laying down
the foundations for acceptance. The older generation have for the most part
“seen it all” and they are not interested in interfering with other individuals
rights. There’s better things to be doing.
Obviously the various
religious groups in our country have had their share of representation in
opposition, but even the cracks there are beginning to show. As Australia
becomes increasingly secularised the percentage of the population obligated by
religion to oppose same sex marriage has continued to decline.
Liberal Senator
Concetta Fierravanti-Wells would have us believe that the “silent majority” of
Australians oppose marriage equality, and when (not if) it comes to a vote the
results will reflect so.
Putting aside the Senators
bias, there are obvious problems with the claimed existence of this silent
majority. The overall cultural shift to acceptance, the ever increasing
exposure to LGBTQI in media, precedent being set overseas, but most notable of
all is that opposition to marriage equality directly contradicts our national
culture. We are the “she’ll be right” nation, the sun loving, easy going and
laid-back friend to all. For us to be opposed to something we’d have to believe
it required debating in the first place, and in the case of gay-marriage
that’s patently untrue. It is not something that should be debated, it should
just be.
So where does that leave
the opposition to marriage equality? They are the loud minority. Stuck grasping
for relevance in a growing, changing nation they are only sporadically heard
over the din of a populace who has grown up and moved on, who knows that a
change is inevitable and have turned to welcome it.
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